Posted by annierose on January 13, 2006, at 15:39:15
In reply to Something I have learned from therapy, posted by happyflower on January 13, 2006, at 10:13:08
I think you learned so many valuable things about yourself in therapy. That was a beautiful post, although sad when compared to your marriage.
A marriage could never be as wonderful as therapy, because therapy is all about "us" as clients. But I understand the larger picture, and that is a great thing to know.Could you ever share some of those thoughts with your husband ... as in ...
"Why don't you smile when you see me anymore?"
"Do I ever come first?"
Marriage is hard work. I don't think any marriage is perfect, although I suppose most are better than mine. My husband tries, and wants me to be happy, but is very poor at communicating.
Thanks for posting that. It was helpful to me.
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