Posted by happyflower on January 13, 2006, at 10:13:08
I believe I have really learned what is missing in my marriage through therapy.
In therapy, I am the focus, in my marrige I am never the focus, I come last.
In therapy, I like who I am , in my marriage I do not.
In therapy I receive motivation, in my marriage I do not.
In therapy at least someone smiles at me, in my marriage there are no smiles anymore.
In therapy I am my true self, in my marriage I lost myself somewhere.
In therapy I am accepted no matter how weird I may be, in my marriage I get dirty looks.
I know therapy isn't like a marriage, but I sure do miss what I get from therapy from my DH.
Is there anyone out there in a happy marriage? Does it exhist or is it just a fantasy? Why doesn't love last anymore? Are all husband jerks eventually? I wonder if my T is a jerk in his marriage, but nice to everyone else like my DH.
poster:happyflower
thread:598649
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