Posted by Dinah on December 18, 2005, at 20:23:48
In reply to Re: I did tell him everything » Dinah, posted by gardenergirl on December 18, 2005, at 18:39:55
He thinks everything can be ok, if I don't expect ok to look the same as it used to.
He was concerned that I react to him intestinally like I do to my mother, and we discussed the nightmares, and the imagery. He wanted to know if it was the kiss that made me not want to tell him about it. It wasn't of course.
I don't think he takes the entire thing anywhere near as seriously as I do. At one time I think I'd have been upset about that, and try to prove it to him. Now I just feel a bit sadder. I mean, it's not the same on his side of the relationship, and I understand that.
Progress, I guess.
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