Posted by allisonross on December 14, 2005, at 15:23:44
In reply to Re: Falling for my T, posted by Blue Tulip on December 14, 2005, at 11:50:54
> Hi allisonross,
Hi Miss Tulip!
You are so very welcome!
The minute I met my t (over 3 years ago), i felt that chemistry, attraction, etc....but said nothing for a year...it took all the courage I had to bring it up.
he loves authenticity, and being real, and he welcomed my thoughts, and handled my heart with extreme delicacy and sensitivity (still does)
We have discussed it so many times. i finally got the courage to tell him I thought he had feelings for me, also (another scary thing!!)...i won't go into details what he said here; but if you would like to know more; please email me: wacalice@aol.com
You might like to know I got in trouble for talking about my t here, and was told to put a trigger message on it. I like to tease, flirt and joke a lot (it's my inborn personality, free-spirit!), and some were offended because they thought their relationship with their t's was "sacred".
I will be performing (dancing) Flamenco for him (he speaks Spanish), and I resonate with what you said, about your t' "seeming to enjoy talking about your feelings, etc."
Mine certainly does; and he bends the boundaries, too...again, I wouldn't state what that is....here
He basically said "who WOULDN'T LOVE YOU??!!
That's cause men find me irresistable! LOl, LOL
Hugs n love to you......Ally
> Thank you for sharing your story.
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> When I first met my T I liked him OK but wouldn't have never given him a second look in real life.
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> Then like out of the blue he seemed like the most wonderful man on earth. So I guess it must be transference, but it sure feels like love.
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> I don't have any expectations about a personal relationship with him. I just want to learn how to live with this wonderfiul pain. The more I share with him the more I love him.
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> This seems like a place where a lot of you understand this type of relationship.
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> I hope that talking about it may help ease my pain some.
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> Blue Tulip
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