Posted by allisonross on December 14, 2005, at 5:33:16
In reply to Falling for my T, posted by Blue Tulip on December 13, 2005, at 22:59:26
> Hi,
Hi, BlueTulip, and welcome: I have been in love with my t for over 2 years. We discuss it in depth. It isn't the Freudian transference stuff; if I had met him anywhere else, I would have the same feelings.
I could write a book on what has happened between us. He has feelings for me, also. We have discussed it. He says "as long as we discuss, it, it isn't dangerous"
He once said: "Who WOULDN'T love you"
It is a very painful situation, but I told him: "I would rather be in pain with you, than without you. I've only felt this way about one other man (not a t) in my life: authentic men; deeply intuitive, sensitive and real...they get it.
You may want to read: In Session: The Bond Between women and their therapists by Deborah Lott.....she says that "falling in love with your t, is one of the most painful situations." I know all about it!
Hugs and welcome, Ally
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> I'm new here and this is my first post.
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> I've been reading posts on this sight for the last few days. There seems to be a lot of drama here but I am going to take a chance and post my story so you can get to know me a little.
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> I would like to share some of the things I am going through with others that understand "therapy issues". And hopefuly get some of your perspectives.
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> I'm a female,married with one child and have been in therapy with a male T for the last year.
> My husband and I are also in marriage therapy to deal with our deteriorating marriage.
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> The thing that I am interested in learning more about here is the relationship dynamics between a female patient and male T.
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> I have gotten to the point where feel like I am falling for my T.....hard.
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> I know this is something that happens to a lot of women. But it's the first time it is happening to me. I didn't expect this. I feel rattled but extremely alive.
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> So,.....here I am on a web site talking about it.
> Because where else could I share these things safely?
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