Posted by happyflower on December 3, 2005, at 8:03:13
In reply to Re: This is what I am going to tell him next » happyflower, posted by Dinah on December 2, 2005, at 11:08:01
> It's a big decision, and you have the right to do it in a way that feels right to you. Unless your husband is a danger to you, leaving at your own rate is the best way to make it a "successful" separation.
I agree, I feel time is on my side. I am not prepared to follow through with the ultimatium at this point. What good would that be ? When I offer the ultimatium, I need to be prepared that it could lead to a separation. I am not emotionally, or financially ready for that.
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