Posted by Dinah on December 2, 2005, at 11:08:01
In reply to This is what I am going to tell him next, posted by happyflower on December 2, 2005, at 10:09:54
I think you have every right to do that. My therapist has only ever made hypothetical ultimatums, and understands that my response to any real one would be to not do whatever it is he wants me to do, even if I was planning to do it the next day before the ultimatum.
It's a big decision, and you have the right to do it in a way that feels right to you. Unless your husband is a danger to you, leaving at your own rate is the best way to make it a "successful" separation.
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