Posted by happyflower on December 1, 2005, at 17:12:19
In reply to Re: I am back from therapy. Long post, I need a nap » happyflower, posted by Tamar on December 1, 2005, at 15:51:03
Well my GP doc prescibed me some sleeping pills to see if this helps my mood. It is the generic form of Restoril. Any know about it? He wants to see how this helps before he increases my Sarafem(low dose prozac) that I take every 2 weeks for my PMDD or bad PMS.
Oh, I remember more of therapy moments. I also talked about on how everybody is a *sshole and people just suck. LOL I said I bet he is even one, and he said he has been before, but most people think he is a pretty nice guy. (except for the people who thinks he is a *sshole) We talked about Mother Theresa and the Pope. LOL
So I talked about everything other than the pink elephant with poka dots in the room wearing panties! LOL Sorry I couldn't resist.
Then we talked about having affairs. He said married people should have affairs with married people and single people should have them with single people. When both are married, neither want to get caught and both are just as busy with their families on holidays. He was just kidding but he does have a point.
He even sang a winter in wonderland song because it was snowing outside, but I was in no happy mood for it at the beginning the session. He was joking a lot, but I wasn't in the mood, and he noticed my lack of normal humor. He got the point, LOL
He did tell me about his mothers passive aggressive things she used to do to his father that was kinda of funny. He said both of his parents were very good parents but just not a good marriage. But they have been married for over 60 years.
We also talked about I bought a box of condoms and put it in my DH's suitcase before he left for his trip overseas. Now I guess I was being passive aggressive, but I got my point accross since he does have a vacectomy.
Then my T was surprised that I pack my DH suitcase for him. I have always done this. He says his wife wouldn't pack his suitcase, how would she know how many pairs of underware he would need. (oh, boy, underware again, but he said it not me) Well duh! LOL One for everyday and a couple pairs for just in case. LOL
Then we talked about what I do and my DH do around the house and what he does and doesn't do around the house. I told him I didn't need to know he doesn't clean bathrooms. LOL But at least he knows how to do dishes and the laundry. LOL
Well I thought it was interesting that he noticed I wasn't there this morning. LOL What did he miss me or something? HeeHee!
Do your T's ever pressure you to do things? My T is really is kinda pressuring me to give my DH ultimatiums in my marriage at the begining of the year. I just don't know if I am up to it, and I am not ready to do it either. I told him today that I didn't really want to. Of course he wanted to know why. Well he said how can you be any more miserable than you are.
I said wouldn't just hiring a hitman be easier than confronting him again and making demands? He said no you can't do that. Well I kept going, I said (joking) that I could feed him a lot of really unhealty food and he would die sooner. He said I could buy him a skydiving suit for X-mas or I could buy his old motorcycle. LOL I guess we joked around a little today.He said it would really sad for me to stay in an emotionless, sexless dead marriage at my age. Boy am I still tired, I can't wait to try out my new meds. I am hoping for a great nights sleep. :) I need it. I am glad I have my T even though my stomach was in knots this time. But he really helped, it was one of the more serious sessions we have had. A lot of work this time. If you got to the bottom of this message, thanks for listening! :)
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