Posted by Dinah on November 29, 2005, at 17:34:43
In reply to Re: Depression questions » Pfinstegg, posted by happyflower on November 29, 2005, at 15:29:52
I wouldn't consider it regressing exactly. And I definitely wouldn't be getting angry with yourself over it.
It sounds as if you have a good grasp on the dynamics. If you live in the north, I understand that winter often increases depression. Down here, winter is one of the nicer times of year. :)
And marital problems bring lots of stress, and depression is one possible reaction to stress.
I'm sorry your husband isn't open to counseling. It's a lot harder to work on your marriage alone. Someone a while back recommended a book to me, but I can't recall the name. Something about when only one of you will work on your marriage. My marriage took an upswing shortly afterward, and I didn't follow through (unless it's in that stack of unread books).
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