Posted by LipGloss on November 28, 2005, at 15:17:47
In reply to And also » happyflower, posted by Voce on November 28, 2005, at 13:15:34
> I think your relationship with your T has made your realize what's missing from your marriage, and that you deserve better. I'm glad he's been so caring about you. And I'm also sorry about your marriage, and that you want a divorce. I can't imagine how sad and rejected you must feel from your hubby. :-(
Happyflower,
I agree with Voce on this.
I also want you to know that I understand the feeling you are having and in no way am I trying to diminish their depth. I identify very much with your situation and feel for you.
I would like you to think of some things that you have now that you would not have if your relationship with your T moves to the next level.
1. You would not have 50 min. a week of his undivided attention. His wife does not even get that. Not in the way that you do in session.
2. You would no longer have the fantasies about him. They would be taken away forever. Real life with him might sound like a better deal but it could never measure up to your fantasies.
3. You would actually lose some power. You would be the "new" girlfriend or wife that would have to start watching her back for girls like you or me that might have their eye on him. It's better to feel like the huntress.
We may have started out on the wrong foot.(my fault). I hope we can be friends.
LipGloss
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