Posted by happyflower on November 28, 2005, at 15:04:55
In reply to Soul mates and T's » happyflower, posted by Voce on November 28, 2005, at 12:57:58
I do know for me that when you meet a soul mate you know instantly, it isn't anything you do or not do. Both of my last soul mates were passed away at least 15 years, so I didn't immediately reconize the feeling as a soul mate feeling at first. But there was a feeling when I first met him. It was the same feeling. I know it sounds crazy, kinda like how can EMDR really work, all they do is wave a finger in front of your face, and you are healed, but I believe in soul mates.
Soul mates aren't always romantic soul mates either, it could be my T was the one who was going to help me heal my past. But if I told you all the signs, and coincedenses, I think you would get an idea how much in our lives are in common. This is commom with people who are your soul mates. But for me it is a feeling.
Now if you get lucky and meet your soul mate and get married, you would still need to work at your relationship. But it would be easier because you have so much in common. Now that my kids are half grown, it would nice to be with someone who shares a lot of my interestes and who agree on a lot of core hot topics of life. Most people are not so lucky, I just hope I might be. :)
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