Posted by muffled on November 21, 2005, at 13:43:27
In reply to Re: Hello! » muffled, posted by LittleGirlLost on November 21, 2005, at 12:10:39
> Thanks Muffled!! You just made my day. :D
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> I'm here, I'm here!!***Guess you gonna have to change you name to Little girl HERE!
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> Actually though, I have backed away from posting a bit. Mainly because I find it overwhelming at times. Talking about my therapist and hearing about others, while I have found it so incredibly helpful, it also seems to trigger me into thinking about her more.**You most definately not alone in that. Nor should you feel pressured to post. Just post when you feel you want to. Otherwise they'll come across kinda fake like. Not real. The only exception is its nice when people will pop in a short post just to say they ok. And thats a kind thing to do.
I hate to use the word, obsessing. I always struggle with trying to see if it is better to keep her in my mind between sessions, or try to push her out. It's actually painful to keep her there, so I do try to push her out, therefore if I post or read here too much then I can't stop thinking about her... and for me, I'm just not sure it's a good thing. kwim? Then, every now and again I will have a question or want feedback on something, but I hesitate to write since I'm not really a regular.**Regular? People drift in and out all the time. Never hesitate to post (unless you think you'll get a pbc!!!Gack!!). Its boggles my mind how much sometimes the most innocuous post will just take on a life of its own sometimes. Other times, not. Oh well. But it helps others to not feel so alone.
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> One thing I do want to add is, my email is always open to anyone. Sometimes I do better one on one without feeling overwhelmed with so many posts and responses.**I just stick to one board pretty much. That helps me. Thanks about the e-mail. I like to post so I can get the most possible input, or not! as the case may be. I always tick the thing that notifys me of follow ups to threads that interest me. Then if I'm feeling overwhelmed I just stick to those threads and do only a quick scan of the rest.
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> I'm glad you started this thread. :)***Thank-you. I actually felt like a bit of an idiot about it, it didn't do much at first. But now we got you and hopefully luvdove feeling more better. See? Go figger eh?
Thanks for your reply.
Muffled
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