Posted by muffled on November 21, 2005, at 11:58:53
In reply to Re: Anyone else?-speak up!, posted by Little GirlLost on November 21, 2005, at 9:24:10
> I promise I don't mean this against anyone here, but I've always wondered why I am never noticed, not only online, but IRL too.
* I USED to feel that way here. Now noone can shut me up!!!!!!!!!!HA!
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> In fact, a few times I have wanted to post about this, but I don't want it to sound like I am accusing people of forgetting me or something. I'm seriously wondering what is it about me that causes me to be so unnoticable. Even on another message board I used to post on. I was always well liked while I was there, but when I step away, it always goes unnoticed. Yet some other people are gone for a day and everyone posts to ask where they are. I've always wondered what do they have that I don't... or what is it about me. Maybe because I'm shy? I dunno... I feel like I really don't fit in anywhere.*Wow. You my clone! I don't fit in anywhere either. Nowhere. My whole life. I didn't even fit in with my own family. But that is changing. I now sometimes fit in for a time, but then I get freaked and retreat. I am so not used to fitting in. Its weird.
What I have discovered is that the ones that fit in, just don't give up. They know (as you do) that they come across fine. They just keep going. They don't shrivel up and retreat like me. LGL, I'm sure you have lots to offer, everyone does. You just gonna have to put it out there, and if noone responds, rephrase it and try again. If that don't get much action, try something else!
What you are saying is EXACTLY why I started this thread cuz I SO wish I could remember everyone cuz they all special people out there. Every one is a treasure that I would hate to see inadvertently hurt. But now I'm starting to see the logistics of it all
I'm starting to think that we all just gonna ahve to take it upon our ownselves that if we wanna be noticed, we just gonna have to MAKE IT SO. By posting just like you have done, and luvdove has done and saying HEY, I'm here......etc.
Glad you posted, nice to meet you, hope to hear more!
Muffled
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