Posted by Dinah on November 15, 2005, at 21:25:15
In reply to Re: wasted day in T, posted by JLynn on November 15, 2005, at 19:29:58
Maybe you could think of it more as laying the groundwork than as a wasted session? It's rare that those sort of conversations just pop out fully formed. But you identified your desire to talk about it and realized that it was something you wanted to do. That's progress.
I'm not sure how one goes about having that discussion. I did it in such small increments that I'm not sure I'd recommend my approach to anyone. By the time I was fully open about how much he mattered to me, it was almost boring because we'd skirted the issue so many times. Definitely anticlimactic.
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