Posted by Dinah on November 6, 2005, at 19:23:42
In reply to Re: Wan smile » Dinah, posted by fairywings on November 6, 2005, at 18:41:09
Connecting didn't come easily for us. We worked hard at it.
Even today, when I was commenting on something he was doing, he admitted that it would take a session or two to get back to normal in connection. He said it was like going sixtyfive down the highway, then pulling over for six weeks, then getting back on the highway. That it would take a bit to get to cruising speed.
I guess I remember a bit more than I thought of what we said. I just don't remember it if I try.
I also remember complaining that right now, my connection to him hurt. And he understood, and understood my desire not to hurt, but he thought sometimes pain was good, because it resulted from the same connection that brought about growth and healing over the years. Then I got mad at him, because it wasn't *him* hurting. :(
Ah well. Darned if I know why I feel better. :)
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