Posted by allisonross on November 2, 2005, at 22:21:19
In reply to Re: Here., posted by Susan47 on November 2, 2005, at 19:11:51
> Allison, did you realize you're answering yourself? I didn't post some of the stuff you're answering in this post of your own.
Woops, no I didn't realize that.
> I won't hate him; I don't like the way he behaved with me but part of that is, I'm sure, my own fault.
No, it isn't. The therapist is supposed to keep the boundaries NO MATTER WHAT the client does. It is ALWAYS THEIR responsibility.
I admit I bring out the flirt in many people, men and women alike. Don't know why, but I'm getting a good handle on that.
I am a terrible flirt, and I LOVE it, and since it is ME, I will keep right on being ME.
And you can't fault someone for the way they're looking at you and what they're looking at.. he's subtle after all. In public you'd never know. That's why I say he's terrible in his power. There is no evidence other than what I experienced with him; what many others, no doubt, also experience.
And you said you aren't with him anymore?
You might want to think about writing him a letter. It might make you feel better
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