Posted by daisym on November 2, 2005, at 0:21:42
In reply to But it's time to face the truth, posted by messadivoce on November 1, 2005, at 1:27:26
You sound so sad and so lonely. I think you've really gotten clear about your dad and your fiance and your therapist. All men who are important to you and each has something they can't be for you.
So perhaps, in time, you will be able to string their caring together and make it whole, inside yourself. It maybe that your dad is a great grandpa someday...and you'll find a way to connect with him then. Maybe not, but who knows? It certainly sounds like your fiance has the capacity to provide you with a love that is healing and uplifting.
I think it is perfectly understandable to miss your therapist so much, especially as you approach your wedding. He touched you, helped you change and made a huge difference. I'm sure he will be there with you in spirit.
I hope tomorrow is a brighter day.
Hugs,
Daisy
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