Posted by antigua on October 31, 2005, at 7:14:22
In reply to Re: Tale Tales **May be big trigger for some, csa** » antigua, posted by Tamar on October 30, 2005, at 16:22:57
You made some great points, but why don't I know these things BEFORE I get myself into these horrible situations? That's what I want, not to barrel through on my own, only to feel rejected and confused.
Yes, this guy more than reminds me of my father, and I recognized that from the very beginning. I've stayed away from him for years because of this, but I guess I just lost my head. The good things he represented just drew me in. And he did reject me, but I know in my heart that it's not the same thing as my father. But feeling it is different.
This morning the light is better. His loss, not mine. I think you're very right about the hug--it's intimate, but not sexual, although I did want mine to be sexual too. Not normally, though. A good safe hug is a wonderful thing.
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