Posted by antigua on October 31, 2005, at 7:06:15
In reply to Re: Tale Tales **May be big trigger for some, csa** » antigua, posted by Pfinstegg on October 30, 2005, at 10:01:35
Thank you, what insight. This is a whole area I had never thought/confronted until this came up. It just came as a complete surprise. Which makes me think my T and I are working backwards (at least this week anyway). By being able to face the rejection at 11, maybe my mind will be more willing to look at what he did.
"My analyst has said a number of times that the sequence of sexual abuse followed by emotional and/or physical abuse, is very common. It's a way for them to control their impulses, (by emphasizing negative things about you), and also to blame YOU for causing them to lose control and molest you."
I didn't know this, but it explains some things. Thanks for making me think in this direction.
I will tell you that I was so filled w/rage yesterday afternoon that I didn't know what to do. I don't do rage, have never been able to access it and have always turned it inward. Well, I went for a walk and when I came home I found a padded baseball bat and took it over to the park are beat the sh$t out of the wire fences. It was so much better than turning it on myself.
thanks for taking the time to reply,
antigua
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