Posted by allisonross on October 25, 2005, at 9:01:47
In reply to And PS » allisonross, posted by Susan47 on October 24, 2005, at 20:16:57
> And I realize a while ago that all sorts of classically Freudian concepts were at work in my relationship with this T. It was hilarious, when I realized some things. Y'know, EMDR is fabulous.
Hmmm. what is EMDR? While I am sure there is transference stuff going on (that is a natural thing, I understand); love....is love...we are alike in 28 different ways (don't ask me how I know, LOL).....As I said (I think), if I had met him at work or he was my tv repairman, I would have loved him......yes, we all are in denial; people "do what they need to, to stay out of pain" We all construct our own versions of reality.....but I believe I can look at the reality (it IS...painful)...and sometimes it takes my breath away, and we have such an authentic, fabulous relationship and do good work together, even though....there is that elephant in the living room! he said: "As long as we talk about it, it isn't dangerous" Smiles, Alice (what was your experience? I'd love it hear about it......
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