Posted by Susan47 on October 22, 2005, at 21:50:23
In reply to Re:To Susan unrequited/sort of) Love with my Thera, posted by allisonross on October 21, 2005, at 12:36:34
Well I'm not really sure how to explain what I mean so perhaps I don't know what I'm talking about.
Bear with me, let me try anyway. I'm not the smartest mouse on the block but what I'm thinking is if you have issues that have to do with sex, and wanting to be wanted, wanting to be loved and found sexually desirable, because of whatever reasons from childhood or development or whatever, and you start feeling like he can help you with the answer, watch out. Don't pursue him for that. He can't be that object. He just can't. Nobody can but a real person in a real life, a life you're living outside of his office. Sure, you have to deal with this stuff in therapy, but he may not be the one able to help you with it, and he may not really know how to do it, but once again, I believe he has to tiptoe, and the dance you're dancing can never be Salsa.
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