Posted by fairywings on October 23, 2005, at 17:16:01
In reply to Re: My therapist hurt my feelings » daisym, posted by Annierose on October 23, 2005, at 7:27:57
> This post resonated with me as well. My daughter and I were having a conversation last night about babies. We were snuggling at bedtime and I said, "I imagine when you are an adult, you may become a pediatrician because you are so natural with babies and toddlers." She looked puzzled, "Mom, all people like babies. Who wouldn't want to hold one?" "Well, I'm not too comfortable with babies." "Oh, mom seriously, of course you are, look at me, you loved me as a baby. And my brother."
You know you're doing things right when your child feels so good about the way you are with her, and with your son. And you know what a good job you've done when she assumes that all ppl like babies and want to hold them. You've created a good frame of reference Annie, you're obviously a great mom.
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