Posted by happyflower on October 21, 2005, at 15:24:51
In reply to Re: Confused, need some advice, please help please, posted by antigua on October 21, 2005, at 15:09:42
> Wow, that sounds hard. IMO, a T usually waits to be invited so as to not intrude. This is beginning to sound more personal. What are you going to do? Would being direct w/him help?
> antiguaNow that therpy is in the end stages, I feel things have gotten more personal, nothing that crosses any boundries, but maybe bending the strict boundries he once had though. It looks like I am going to have to be more upfront with him about it. He is still helping me a great deal as a therapist, but things are more relaxed and personal.
One time, we were talking about my marriage, and he asks me something about it (i forget what exactly) and then he sort of apologies for asking by saying, well I won't be going my job, if I don't ask you this. I said I know, that is why I am going to see him , because he is my therapist and he is helping me.
I just don't know if he will tell me what he is really feeling about me if I ask. I am afraid he will just say what he is trained to say if I confront him. Is is wrong for him to care about me or like me?
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