Posted by daisym on October 20, 2005, at 12:41:41
In reply to Magnets » Racer, posted by fallsfall on October 20, 2005, at 7:26:42
how would you then incorporate the concept of projective identification? If I understand it correctly, it is my ability to make you feel like I feel, so I don't have to feel it. I'm working on this, especially around anger. I let my husband hold all the anger because I can't tolerate it. I don't know how I'm doing this yet, but I recognize the truth in it.
So when I react to things, and then project my reactions, is this then taking an unconscious lead? (Hmmm...gets clearer as I type this.)
I think the ultimate question for me is: how to excise my unconscious, because the darn thing seems to be doing me no good at all!
I liked your post a lot.
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