Posted by Tamar on October 5, 2005, at 13:08:46
In reply to Feeling sad to leave, posted by orchid on October 3, 2005, at 14:08:06
Hi Orchid,
I can imagine you're feeling sad and angry and all kinds of emotions. You're facing a very big change in your life.
I think it's a good thing that you're doing much better emotionally. It seems as if you have the psychological resources to deal with all the changes, even though you don't like them much.
About your marriage... I'm certain that all marriages have periods where things aren't plain sailing. It's often possible to work through it and have long periods of satisfaction and contentment too. And I do think things can be very difficult in the first few years when both the man and the woman are trying to get used to living together.
I'm not sure that living with your in-laws will make things any easier, so I think it might be worth talking to your husband about what you might do if things become unbearable for you. If you have a possible escape plan before you move in with his parents, it might give you a sense of being less trapped.
I hope things go very well for you.
Tamar
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