Posted by JenStar on August 25, 2005, at 0:26:56
In reply to Need and attachment, posted by Dinah on August 21, 2005, at 10:11:26
hi Dinah,
I'm sorry things are weird with him, and changing in a way that makes you sad. :( I'm sad for you too!I think I 'get' what you're talking about -- the ladder rung analogy was great & really helped me understand your thoughts. It makes sense to me, but then I tend to form strong attachments to people and get scared/upset/etc. when the relationship changes. And sometimes it gets BETTER, but until I see that I'm still upset because of the change.
I wonder what's in the future for you and your T? Do you have any ideas what you'll be like in a year or 2 years from now? Do you think it's possible that the diet and the other issues are messing with your mind (I know it does to me!) and making you more depressed?
I wish I could help. I'm here to listen!
take care of yourself.
JenStar
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