Posted by Tamar on August 10, 2005, at 18:57:44
In reply to Sigh (long), posted by messadivoce on August 9, 2005, at 22:19:40
> He shot back a reply 2 hours later, saying "congratulations once again, and yes I will be staying on."
Ouch! Oh, that’s painful.
> It breaks my heart to think that he doesn't really want to talk to me anymore.
Maybe he thinks it’s not therapeutic for you if he continues to be in contact with you. That doesn’t mean he’s right…
> I'm trying to think of some appropriate non-fatal semi-uncomfortable thing to wish up him. Hemerroids maybe.
Yeah. Or, as you say, an experience that will make him truly understand what you’re going through.
I’m sorry it hurts. I’ve also been going through a patch of ex-therapist blues the last few days. Sometimes, just when I feel it’s all dissipating, it comes back like a slap in the face.
I keep trying to tell myself that my ex-T liked me as much as possible in the circumstances but, dammit, I want him to love me and miss me the way I love and miss him!
Maybe if your ex-therapist easing off contact with you it’s painful for him too. I’m sure he couldn’t possibly ever forget you.
Tamar
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