Posted by rabidreader on August 5, 2005, at 13:48:58
In reply to Re: Yesterday I walked down my ex-T's street » Susan47, posted by Damos on August 5, 2005, at 0:24:09
Dear Susan47,
I think what Damos has to say about people wanting to see you succeed is so true! You have been such a huge help to me in just a short time, Susan, I don't know where I would be with everything if it weren't for you. You've been great about getting me through my T leaving, and my feelings for him.
This shows to me that you have a lot of inner strength and can use this strength for your own good. I think it's great that you can go to the dry cleaner's without feeling so awful. But is it wise to put yourslef in ANY situation where you might see him? Is there a possibility that you might just need to avoid ALL of those situations? I'm only asking because I care, and I want you to feel like you have your life back and not quake in your boots when you get to an area where he might be. It might be a pain, but for a while it might work to thoroughly avoid him in every way.
Let me know what you think. I care about how you're doing, and worry about you.
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