Posted by pinkeye on August 4, 2005, at 13:08:57
In reply to Re: Where to go from here?? » pinkeye, posted by JenStar on August 3, 2005, at 20:18:16
Thanks Jen.
I do have a Green Card, and my money has always been in my name in a separate account. So I think I am safe enough to come back if I really need to. WE have a joint account where we put half our salaries, and we have individual accounts where the other half gets to go. I was adamant about setting it up this way in the beginning, and though my husband didn't like it much at the beginning, subsequently we have both felt little at peace with the fact that we are not accountable for half the money to our spouses. It makes us feel much more peaceful and allows us to spend money for our families. I suppose when kids come, we will make that 75 % to joint and 25 % to individual.
I don't want to go to therapy as of now in India. Because my plans are all too vague, and I don't know how long I will be there. and I might be travelling frequently to my home town etc. But I will ask around for some good contacts and maybe I will visit a couple just to establish rapport and get a feel of how they are.
Thanks for your advice.
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