Posted by daisym on July 29, 2005, at 18:50:06
In reply to Re: Talking about Sex (potential trigger) » Daisym, posted by Annierose on July 29, 2005, at 12:50:40
Annie,
I know how connected you are to your therapist. Is it hard for you to talk about the subject or to talk about it with her? Sometimes it is easier for me than other times. I'm glad he asks lots of questions because it is easier to keep going. And giving him stuff in writing before has help to lay the ground work a little.
I asked him on the phone today about this. And he said he realizes that I never had a place to talk about feelings and sensuality before, not in a safe way. Again, this was from the discussion Tamar and I had. So he said we can and should do more of it, as I was ready. It was a nice conversation today, I even told him that I felt pretty OK when I left yesterday so I didn't want to mess it up today by saying the wrong thing. He said "there is no wrong thing with me...but I know what you mean." :)
I'll lend you my courage, such as it is. Tell me when.
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