Posted by pinkeye on July 28, 2005, at 18:51:12
In reply to Re: It is not being positive it is being non negative, posted by Susan47 on July 27, 2005, at 23:57:14
The reason why you find it so difficult is perhaps you are holding very high standards for judging yourself...
After all, you haven't done any of the supposed crimes.. stealing, raping, murdering.. Maybe you had drug issues, and maybe some issues with your appearance, and some issues with your dad. And you are so extremely dependant on your T.. And possibly you have been harsh towards people. But these are not something that makes a person bad.. Why do you feel you are so unworthy?? I have known people who have been good for nothing throughout their lives, never earned any money, have been so extremely spiteful and make everybody's lives miserable, people who wreak havoc in other people's live - if they can live happily and think of themselves as great, why can't you??
I think you just need to lower your standars, and accept that human beings are just conscious animals, and nothing more.. Mabye we have little bit of a soul and self judgement, but don't take it to an extreme.
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