Posted by pinkeye on July 25, 2005, at 19:13:06
In reply to Re: Letting go of my ex T » pinkeye, posted by pinkeye on July 25, 2005, at 15:33:03
For some reason, I have always felt a little protective of my ex T .. Today, I feel so very protective of him. And I feel how stupid I am being.. I am the one who needs protection, but I feel like teaching him many things and protecting him.. I almost feel like guiding him and I am thinking it is some sort of huge projection that I have ... Maybe what I want to feel towards myself, I am projecting to him..
I always felt he wouldn't have had a good childhood himself.. His mother must have been so very busy, I wonder if he ever got to spend time with her.. I wonder perhaps that is the reason why he is so very logical and little emotionally cold. And I think just like me, he took on his mother's ideals for himself.. and I feel like teaching him lot of stuff about life..
I think I am still not over projecting to him..
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