Posted by LadyBug on July 19, 2005, at 23:42:59
I've been wondering...
How many wish you had NEVER been in therapy?????
Do you have regrets???
Has it helped you??
Has it hurt you??
Has it made you feel worse about yourself or better about yourself??
Did you get all that you wanted out of it??
Would you recommend it to others??I know this is a load of questions but I'm wondering how everyone else really feels.
I'm so stuck in the process. I love my T. and it feels so wrong. She is so awesome but the boundaries make me mad sometimes. Tonight when she called me she said, what can I do that will make you feel better. I said, I know what I want to tell you but we can't do it. (I was thinking I'd like to go to her house or have her come to my house and we could hang out, go to lunch or the things that friends do.) She laughed and said, there we go again. It hurts like hell sometimes. I don't ever want to tell her goodbye and I guess if I don't want to I don't have to but this work is supposed to end eventually. Not to mention all the money that has been spent seeing her. But she is good to me that way. She gives me a reduced fee since I've been with her for so long.
Just wondering if anyone regrets starting into the therapy process. I'd love to see how you all honestly feel. I'll write more about what I'm thinking later but I'm really thinking I regret my threapy. I want to love and be loved. Something I didn't get as a little girl.Hugs
LadyBug
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