Posted by Jazzed on June 23, 2005, at 23:07:03
In reply to Coming to a finaly conclusion about my ex T., posted by pinkeye on June 23, 2005, at 22:43:37
One thing that comes to mind, when I hear about your letters to your T, is that when I left my first T, the 2nd T (who was trying to help me get over the damage the 1st T had done) told me that the 1st T's interference wasn't harmful to me, and that there should be no contact if I was going to get through this. He was right. I didn't have any contact for about a year, and it took that long to pull my life back together.
Maybe, in not having contact with you, he feels that he is doing the right thing. I don't know. Maybe he feels he's protecting himself, maybe he feels he is protecting you. It's so complicated to know exactly what's going on, and why they're doing what they're doing. Maybe write to him and tell him you're moving back to India in Aug., and in order for you to put this to rest, you need to know why he terminated you, and how hurt you've been by it?
Jazzy
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