Posted by happyflower on June 21, 2005, at 8:32:31
In reply to Re: Happy, how ya doing? could trigger » happyflower, posted by Jazzed on June 21, 2005, at 7:38:47
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> OMGosh! I'm SO sorry happy! They should be locked up! No child deserves that, and no one should have to carry the feelings attached to that.
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Thanks for the hugs. My mom was the main physical abuser, but my dad did things too. I could never do to my kids what was done to me. Thank goodness I stopped the cycle.
My T is in a group to prevent child abuse and he is just so impressed by how I am with my kids. We have talked about child raising issues and he says I am such a good mom. I thank Bill Cosby Show, Leave it to Beaver, Brady Bunch, and many other shows that taught me values and another way to be with kids then what my parents taught me. My T said it also taught him another way to be too. I don't know all his issues but I know that he said his parents had a bad marriage even though they are still married today for 60 years. He remembers waiting for his mom, while she was in therapy! lol> >
> > But I do cry in front of my husband and kids if I am pushed hard enough or like when my daughter had to have heart surgurey. But I feel very uncomfortable.
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> Gosh, who wouldn't? Is your daughter okay now? How long ago was that? I can't imagine!
>Yeah it was tough, it was 3 years ago. She had a heart defect we didn't know about until she was 7 yrs old. At first they told me she need open heart surgury. Which I cried so hard. But luckly for us, a new procedure was developed and FDA approved a month after we found out. They repaired her whole in her heart by going through the artery in her groin instead of open heart. It was outpatient and we were home the next day. But she has been checked every year now, and she is 100% normal. But we just had her appointment last month which was only 40 minutes and it cost over 1800.00!!!! Yikes. We have insurance but have to pay the 500 deductible.
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> I think my T does it too, and I think he does hypnosis, but I'm not sure I want to do that!
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Well I don't know if mine does this, but there is NO WAY I am doing this. Can you imaigine what I would say and do especially how I feel about him. Oh my!>> Hmmmmm, fun to think about, huh? Sensitive? I'm sure he'd be a great lover! LOL Now, get in the zone!
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Ohhhh, I have too much work to do today and a trumpet lesson to think about so maybe tommorrow I can get into the zone! AUUUGHGGHH!
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