Posted by Jazzed on June 21, 2005, at 7:38:47
In reply to Re: Happy, how ya doing? could trigger, posted by happyflower on June 21, 2005, at 1:52:32
> > I don't like to cry ever! I was not allowed to cry as a child even when I had the crap beaten out of me, if I cried it lasted longer and was hit harder.OMGosh! I'm SO sorry happy! They should be locked up! No child deserves that, and no one should have to carry the feelings attached to that.
(((((hugs))))))My T knows this, and doesn't push it with me. This is why EMDR works so well. I have come close to tears once and my T looked so concerned like a lost puppy or something, it was kinda a "gassy baby look" if you know what I mean. lol
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LOL, I'm imagining that, too funny! ; )
> But I do cry in front of my husband and kids if I am pushed hard enough or like when my daughter had to have heart surgurey. But I feel very uncomfortable.Gosh, who wouldn't? Is your daughter okay now? How long ago was that? I can't imagine!
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> I remember telling my T thats why I get along with males better than females,I feel more comfortable with men too because it seems like men can hear just about anything and not be phased by it. I feel more judged by women, but I do cry, and that makes me uncomfortable in front of anyone.
> Well I feel it is opening up a whole can of worms with me.I'm glad you're doing it though, sounds theraputic. Maybe I'll have to try EMDR, I think my T does it too, and I think he does hypnosis, but I'm not sure I want to do that!
I still might suck at it anyways! :)
Now, now you be kind to yourself!
> >Oh, la la! But I would be more gentle though! lol He is sort of a sensitive guy. I wonder what kind of lover he would be? Sometimes it is hard to tell. hmmmmmm. Jazzy, stop putting these thoughts into my head! lol hmmmmmmm..... I said stop it Jazzy, do you hear me? mmmmmmmm..... Oh help me now!
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Hmmmmm, fun to think about, huh? Sensitive? I'm sure he'd be a great lover! LOL Now, get in the zone!Jazzy
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