Posted by shermanvolvo on June 20, 2005, at 18:32:00
In reply to Women’s things (****possible trigger****), posted by Tamar on June 19, 2005, at 16:28:12
Hey there. If you don't mind, I would just like to respond to your post bit by bit.
> It triggers such nasty feelings for me. I always feel invaded and violated. But here’s the strange thing: I think I would feel more comfortable with a male doctor instead of a woman. Is that just weird
That is not at all weird. You do what works for you.
> And my main question: do you think it’s going to be less traumatic to get all three things done at once? Or do you think it’ll be easier to get them done separately?
That is hard to say; everyone is different. You know yourself best; what does your gut say?
> And does anyone have any tips for making it bearable? I find the triggers simply overwhelming and I’m torn between concerns for my physical health and concerns for my mental health.
Is there anyone that can come with you to the appointment (before, during, after, all the above - whatever works best for you) to support you during this? What worked for you during the delivery, and related exams?
-monika
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