Posted by Dinah on June 19, 2005, at 10:12:49
In reply to Re: I think it got sorted out today, posted by Dinah on June 17, 2005, at 22:21:50
That he was encouraging me to dig deeper and come three times a week. And he was discouraging me from dropping to once a week, even if it was because I was going back to school. And all the time he was applying for a job that would have forced me to only see him once a week, no matter what my actual need was.
I know I should be happy that he was making sure he wouldn't abandon me entirely. And I am very grateful that he was making sure he wouldn't abandon me. I really am.
So I feel like I shouldn't be irritated.
But shouldn't he have encouraged me to go down to once a week on my own so that I wouldn't be hurt so much when he did it to me?
I know it's currently a moot point, but...
And I really am grateful that he kept my needs in mind, and wouldn't abandon me.
poster:Dinah
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