Posted by cricket on June 17, 2005, at 12:52:18
In reply to Re: I'm afraid but I'm also afraid to post about i » daisym, posted by Dinah on June 16, 2005, at 18:53:35
> I think I'm angry right now. Because he's not giving me anything to grab on to. He's so contained that all there is is slippery plastic to grab on to.
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> I need him to extend a hand and help me hold on.
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> I see your therapist doing that all the time.
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> Mine doesn't. :((((
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> Maybe picking a fight with him isn't that bad an idea. Or throwing a temper tantrum. Anything to grab on to something.Hi Dinah,
I think our Ts are a lot alike in the way you describe above.
Self-contained, not enmeshed, not rescuers.
And sometimes, d**n it, it's not want we need.
I wish I knew what to tell you to do. I wish I had this one figured out.
Let us know how it goes.
Do you tell him about the SI urges? That should certainly send up a warning flag, shouldn't it?
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