Posted by Shortelise on June 17, 2005, at 1:41:49
In reply to Bad to Worse -- trigger warning, posted by daisym on June 17, 2005, at 0:04:32
I think what you do now is look at how you've managed to get through the worst of it, the part right after, that you give yourself credit for that, that you give yourself credit for letting the stories out.
And maybe you give yourself a little slack, too. No doubt you're angry, and no doubt you express it at your T! To begin with, expressing anger at him may be a way of getting to that anger, which really has to be gotten to, and felt, so you can get it to go away.
Daisy, it's all ok, I think. It's part of the whole, this anger, and this lashing out at your T. Anger might feel like a thing that breaks things to you because of your Dad's anger. You can have anger, some anger is good. I would think that little daisy's anger at the world is a thing that needs to see the light of day, needs to be shouted and raged and spent.
There, from my injured mouth to your injured ear.
SHortE
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