Posted by Aphrodite on June 16, 2005, at 19:25:40
In reply to T today - hurt and angry - may trigger, posted by Shortelise on June 16, 2005, at 14:31:33
First of all, kudos to your husband. He sounds like a gem.
Second of all, ouch!
I have no idea what termination should look like, but I would suspect it should look different for each person. A T that has been as good for you as he as ought to know not to follow some predescribed protocol he learned in grad school.
I can say what it shouldn't look like -- we shouldn't see a good person reduced to tears, torn from her secure base, someone so in need of compassionate understanding in her grief and loss that when met with misunderstanding has no choice but to run away from the cause of the pain. No, it shouldn't look like that at all.
I'm just so, so sorry. It's probably too soon to ask, but what do you think you're going to do?
Take good care of yourself -- lean on that sweet husband of yours . . . and us too.
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