Posted by frida on June 16, 2005, at 15:30:25
In reply to T today - hurt and angry - may trigger, posted by Shortelise on June 16, 2005, at 14:31:33
ShortE,
Hi..
that sounds so painful. Is there any way you can talk to your T about this and tell him how you're truly feeling? After all the time you've shared and all your work together, I think that what you've described sounds so painful -maybe you need to tell him how you're feeling...
I would call or write to him explaining how i feel...
I would be very hurt too- if my T took away my safe place like that and stopped being compassionate towards me.
Maybe he doesn't realize how you're feeling or how this is affecting you...could you try to give you and him a chance and write to him or tell him how you're truly feeling?
I hope you do..I wouldn't hold this inside for a long time...sending you support,
Frida
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> He is so wrong in this termination technique. To take away my safe place, my compassionate ally, the place where I felt it was ok to feel as I do - it's wrong to take this away.
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> Maybe I am some sort of typical something, BPD or God knows what, and he is using the proven method for terminating my kind. Maybe I am wrong, wrong, wrong to feel as I do.
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> I feel incurable, like a therapy failure. I have failed. If I were better, if I had succeeded in therapy, I'd be blithely sailing throught this, wouldn't I? I haven't walked out of a therapy session in **three years***.
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> I wish I could kill myself. I know I won't but I want to.
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> I talked with my husband, cried on his shoulder, love him so much.
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> ShortE
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poster:frida
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