Posted by rockymtnhi on May 18, 2005, at 14:50:24
In reply to Wondering if my Ex T understood me, posted by pinkeye on May 18, 2005, at 13:39:22
It sounds like you have a lot of unfinished business with your ex T.Even though it is unrealistic, I wish you had a day to spend with him to let out all of your feelings and get some answers.
In reference to your comments about your husband, I would like to share a story with you about my ex-T. My ex-T kept asking my husband why he didn't leave me...I was a terrible housekeeper, unloving, etc. Of course, my husband would come home and tell me these things and I always felft betrayed by my ex T because of it. As it turns out, what my ex T was really saying to my husband was why did he stay? He was pointing out to him that there obviously more good than bad, he just choose to look at the bad. I hope your ex-T was helping your husband to see what a treasure that you are.
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