Posted by pinkeye on May 17, 2005, at 19:16:53
In reply to Re: How he would have responded *****Trigger******, posted by messadivoce on May 17, 2005, at 19:06:10
Yeah, just don't talk about it if it is not accepted here among your circle of friends.
>I don't talk about my virginal state when I get together with friends. Everyone assumes I'm "doing it" like everyone else. I always avoid questions about it.
That is the reason I am not telling my ex T as well. As it is, he never replied after termination. Now if I go and tell this, it will look like I am inventing a sob story to get his attention. Maybe you can mention it casually - a one liner wihtout going into the details. I am sure though that you will not get the kind of response you would need for such a huge disclosure. IT will be pretty awkward for him and for you.
>I would hate to spring that on him when we only communicate every few months, and he only sends a couple of lines. I think if I were to put that out there, I would need more from him than he is able to give.
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