Posted by pinkeye on May 11, 2005, at 17:53:53
In reply to Woke up this morning (cue blues chords), posted by Tamar on May 11, 2005, at 17:15:39
Oh. I am sorry you are feeling bad.
Did you make up with your husband? Would that help? If it is over trivial matter, maybe you should just give in and move on?
Did your ex T tell you that he is planning to move somewhere? Or is it just your fear? Even if he is here, will you be able to see him again? I haven't seen my ex T for more than a year and a half now, and I don't think I will ever see him again.
They seem to take up this huge, important place in our lives, and unfortunately, we don't take that same place in their lives. It is just the way things are. And you cannot do anything about it now.
But what you can do, is probably live up to what he taught you. I made a promise to my ex T that I will continue to live well, and will try to help others. And many days, when I miss him, remembering that promise helps me keep going. It is as if a way to connect to him. And even writing to other people in this board actually helps me. Can you do something like that?
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