Posted by gardenergirl on May 3, 2005, at 0:11:07
In reply to It could have been such a good life, posted by pinkeye on April 28, 2005, at 17:15:42
Your post really resonated with me. Just last week, I think I was grieving over the inability to go back and make things they way they are "supposed to be." It's so darned hard and sad to come to the realization that certain things were missing or not good, they affected you, and you can't get a re-do.
I do think that we have to and have the right to grieve that loss/void. And I think that must be a step towards moving on and healing. It's gotta be, because all that pain has to be good for something, right?
(((((pinkeye)))))
gg
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