Posted by pinkeye on April 28, 2005, at 21:14:05
In reply to Re: What would progress look like for you? » pinkeye, posted by Dinah on April 28, 2005, at 20:38:44
And actually, I think it is not a specific issue only to you. Most women go through it. Becuase men are not really into building a deep and fulfilling emotional relationship with woman. They are more shallow and more interested in computers, and business, and politics and social interests. Women on the other hand, tend to want extreme emotional intimacy, and like to understand and appreciate all the nuances involved in a relationship, and like to analyze relationships endlessly. A proof of it right in front of your eyes is the fact that almost all of the babblers are all women. A man would be turned away so badly by a board like this. And material achievements tend to fall short in women's eyes after some point. Frankly, I am not at all career oriented - even now. I am just 28 and I am already done with climbing mountains in career front. And I think I have finished even climbing mountains in personal relationships. There is a new kid part that will be in the air pretty soon, but that will be only for 15 - 16 years. After that, I don't know what I will do.
It is a common thing for any woman. So there is not too much to feel bad about it. IT is not specific to your relationship with your husband alone. Maybe that will give you soem consolation.
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