Posted by Tamar on April 28, 2005, at 14:12:23
In reply to Wanting to apologize to my ex T, posted by pinkeye on April 28, 2005, at 13:30:45
I can totally understand that you want to contact him, especially after you have had these new insights (although I don’t think you need to apologise for anything). The idea might give you a sense of closure. But I’m not 100% sure that sharing your insights with him will help you feel that way you want to feel. If he doesn’t reply, will you be devastated?
Do you think the transference might still be at work in this wish to contact him? Do you think it’s maybe a way of still hanging onto him? Might you be able to talk to your new T about your insights and your desire to share them with your old T?
Just a thought; maybe I’m off the mark. I know this is really tough for you. I miss my ex-T too, and today has been one of my hard days.
(((((pinkeye)))))
Tamar
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