Posted by Pfinstegg on April 8, 2005, at 1:17:52
In reply to Sorry for hi-jacking your thread! » B2chica, posted by daisym on April 8, 2005, at 0:06:03
Daisy, I'm so glad you're posting often, again. A thought- maybe up until now, the little daisies who appeared were desparate for closeness and connection with him, but, right now, there might be one who feels it is safer to be more indifferent, detached and at a distance. Both these things have happened to me- I find the detached part is by far the hardest to bear. But he keeps saying, "I want ALL of you in here, even the parts of yourself that you don't want to know about, and that you don't want me to know about." We are working on the most detached part now, but I do feel better knowing that part, too, is welcomed and understood. We went through months of struggling with this, but it's better now that that part is beginning to know that she is welcome, too. It took months! These are just my thoughts and feelings- they may not apply to you
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