Posted by Dinah on April 7, 2005, at 18:24:06
In reply to talking about it, posted by Daisym on April 7, 2005, at 10:34:05
My therapist isn't quite that obvious about it, but he will use our relationship. He'll say things like "But if you kill yourself, we won't be able to meet anymore."
But, since I don't reward him by responding well to that line of argument, he doesn't pursue it too much. Who says they can't be trained if you get them when they're grown. lol.
I'm not sure he's used my son unless I brought it up first. Of course, I can pretty much be relied on for bringing that up.
I just gave him new ammo, though, if he's wise enough to file it away and use it. We're a bit worried about guardianship for my son, don't want it to go where it would be most natural legally, and are not really happy with the alternatives. My husband and I have agreed (perhaps reluctantly on my part) that we both really need to stick around for the next ten or eleven years.
All he needs to do is raise the possibilities with guardianship, and I'll cling to life.
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